Dear Abby

The following are a few letters sent to Abigail Van Burin (Dear Abby) that she herself admitted she was at a loss to answer:

Dear Abby, What can I do about all the sex, nudity, language and violence on my VCR?

Dear Abby, Our son writes that he is taking Judo. Why would a boy who was raised in a good Christian home turn against his own?

Dear Abby, I joined the Navy to see the world. I’ve seen it. Now, how do I get out?

Dear Abby, My forty-year-old son has been paying a psychiatrist $50 an hour every week for two-and-a-half years. He must be crazy.


GJay (Gtk+ DJ) generates playlists across a collection of music (ogg, mp3, wav) such that each song sounds good following the previous song. It is ideal for home users who want a non-random way to wander large collections or for DJs planning a set list. You can generate playlists from within the application, or run GJay as a standalone command-line utility.

Playlist matches are based on:

  • Song characteristics that don’t change
    • Frequency fingerprint
    • Beats per minute
    • Location in file system
  • Song attributes that you set
    • Rating
    • Color (whatever that means to you)

Currently, GJay only works under Linux. There are plans afoot to get it working on MacOS. GJay is released under the GPL.

Like it? Get it.

Audacity – The Free, Cross-Platform Sound Editor

Audacity is free, open source software for recording and editing sounds. It is available for Mac OS X, Microsoft Windows, GNU/Linux, and other operating systems. Learn more about Audacity… Also check our Wiki and Forum for more information.

The latest release of Audacity is 1.3.4 (beta). Because it is a work in progress and does not yet come with complete documentation or translations into foreign languages, it is recommended for more advanced users.

For all users, Audacity 1.2.6 is a stable release, complete and fully documented. You can have both Audacity 1.2.6 and 1.3.3 installed simultaneously.

You can use Audacity to:

  • Record live audio.
  • Convert tapes and records into digital recordings or CDs.
  • Edit Ogg Vorbis, MP3, WAV or AIFF sound files.
  • Cut, copy, splice or mix sounds together.
  • Change the speed or pitch of a recording.

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Discoveries and Inventions by Men And Women

Men discovered COLOURS and invented PAINT, Women discovered PAINT and invented MAKEUP.

Men discovered the WORD and invented CONVERSATION,
Women discovered CONVERSATION and invented GOSSIP.

Men discovered GAMBLING and invented CARDS,
Women discovered CARDS and invented WITCHERY.

Men discovered AGRICULTURE and invented FOOD,
Women discovered FOOD and invented DIET.

Men discovered FRIENDSHIP and invented LOVE,
Women discovered LOVE and invented MARRIAGE.

Men discovered TRADING and invented MONEY,
Women discovered MONEY and invented SHOPPING.

Thereafter Men have discovered and invented a lot of things…
While Women STUCK to shopping.

Software Engineering Proverbs

Below are some of my favorite Software Engineering quotes.

A clever person solves a problem.
A wise person avoids it.

— Einstein

André Bensoussan once explained to me the difference between a programmer and a designer:

“If you make a general statement, a programmer says, ‘Yes, but…’
while a designer says, ‘Yes, and…'”

No matter what the problem is,
it’s always a people problem.

Jerry Weinberg

Wexelblat’s Scheduling Algorithm:

Choose two:

  • Good
  • Fast
  • Cheap

Craziness is doing the same thing and expecting a different result.

Tom DeMarco, rephrasing Einstein, who said

Insanity: doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.

“There’s no time to stop for gas, we’re already late”

— Karin Donker

Deming’s 14 points

  1. Create constancy of purpose.
  2. Adopt the new philosophy.
  3. Cease dependence on mass inspection to meet quality.
  4. Minimize total cost, not first price of supplies.
  5. Improve constantly the system of production and service.
  6. Institute training on the job.
  7. Institute leadership.
  8. Drive out fear.
  9. Break down barriers between departments.
  10. Eliminate slogans, exhortations, and numerical targets.
  11. Eliminate work standards (quotas) and management by goal.
  12. Remove barriers that rob workers, engineers, and managers of their right to pride of workmanship.
  13. Institute a vigorous program of education and self-improvement.
  14. Put everyone in the company to work to accomplish the transformation.

We know about as much about software quality problems as they knew about the Black Plague in the 1600s. We’ve seen the victims’ agonies and helped burn the corpses. We don’t know what causes it; we don’t really know if there is only one disease. We just suffer — and keep pouring our sewage into our water supply.

— Tom Van Vleck

The Troops Know

  • The schedule doesn’t have enough time for maintenance in it.
  • A lot of bugs get past the tests.
  • Most old code can’t be maintained.

To go faster, slow down. Everybody who knows about orbital mechanics understands that.

— Scott Cherf

Everybody Knows:

  • Discipline is the best tool.
  • Design first, then code.
  • Don’t patch bugs out, rewrite them out.
  • Don’t test bugs out, design them out.

Everybody Knows:

  • If you don’t understand it, you can’t program it.
  • If you didn’t measure it, you didn’t do it.

Everybody Knows:

If something is worth doing once, it’s worth building a tool to do it.

Your problem is another’s solution;
Your solution will be his problem.

Everybody Knows:

  • If you’ve found 3 bugs in a program, best estimate is that there are 3 more.
  • 60% of product cost comes after first shipment.

The significant problems we face cannot be solved by the same level of thinking that created them.

— Albert Einstein

On the radio the other night, Jimmy Connors said the best advice he ever got was from Bobby Riggs:

  • do it
  • do it right
  • do it now

It is not enough to do your best: you must know what to do, and THEN do your best.

— W. Edwards Deming

A leader is best when people barely know that he exists.
Less good when they obey and acclaim him.
Worse when they fear and despise him.
Fail to honor people, and they fail to honor you.
But of a good leader, when his work is done, his aim fulfilled,
they will say, “We did this ourselves.”

— Lao-Tzu

You must be the change
You wish to see in the world

— Gandhi

Experiment escorts us last,
His pungent company
Will not allow an axiom
An opportunity.

— Emily Dickinson

when the cart stops
do you whip the cart
or whip the ox?

Q: How many QA testers does it take to change a lightbulb?
A: QA testers don’t change anything. They just report that it’s dark.

Kerry Zallar

Q: How many software engineers does it take to change a lightbulb?
A: Just one. But the house falls down.

Andrew Siwko

One test is worth a thousand opinions.

“If you didn’t write it down, it didn’t happen.”

This saying is popular among scientists (doing experiments), but I believe it applies to software testing, particularly for real-time systems.

Larry Zana

We reject kings, presidents, and voting.
We believe in rough consensus and running code.

Dave Clark (1992)

I am a design chauvinist. I believe that good design is magical and not to be lightly tinkered with. The difference between a great design and a lousy one is in the meshing of the thousand details that either fit or don’t, and the spirit of the passionate intellect that has tied them together, or tried. That’s why programming—or buying software—on the basis of “lists of features” is a doomed and misguided effort. The features can be thrown together, as in a garbage can, or carefully laid together and woven in elegant unification, as in APL, or the Forth language, or the game of chess.

— Ted Nelson

“If you think good architecture is expensive, try bad architecture.”

— Brian Foote and Joseph Yoder

Abraham Lincoln reportedly said that, given eight hours to chop down a tree, he’d spend six sharpening his axe.

— TidBITS 654, quoted by Derek K. Miller, via Art Evans

… while we all know that unmastered complexity is at the root of the misery, we do not know what degree of simplicity can be obtained, nor to what extent the intrinsic complexity of the design has to show up in the interfaces. We simply do not know yet the limits of disentanglement. We do not know yet whether intrinsic intricacy can be distinguished from accidental intricacy.

— E. W. Dijkstra, Communications of the ACM, Mar 2001, Vol. 44, No. 3

You can only find truth with logic if you have already found truth without it.

— Gilbert Keith Chesterton (1874-1936) “ The Man who was Orthodox“, via Paul Black

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